He was born 27 Feb, 1935, and educated at Eton, only son of Capt Luke Theodore Lillingston (1907-44), by his wife the former Susan Margaret Trelawney Seaton (d 1952). He married 12 July, 1962, the Lady Vivienne Margaret Nevill (b 15 Feb, 1941), second daughter of the 5th Marquess of Abergavenny, KG (1914-2000), by his wife the former Mary Patricia Harrison (Patricia Marchioness of Abergavenny, DCVO), by whom he had issue,two sons, Luke and Andrew, and two daughters, Georgina and Sophie.
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